If you’ve ever been in a relationship (or been on the internet), chances are you’ve heard about the 5 Love Languages. Maybe you’ve taken the quiz, memorized the results, and can pinpoint exactly the sort of love language everyone around you seems to speak.
But, if you haven’t, here is the quick rundown!
According to Dr. Gary Chapman – author of The Five Love Languages: How to Express Heartfelt Commitment to Your Mate – the five love languages are:
Words of Affirmation
Acts of Service
Receiving Gifts
Quality Time
Physical Touch
The idea is that every single person gives, receives, and needs love in a unique way. Not just in a relationship with your partner, but also the one you have with yourself. You might have a connection to more than one language, but Dr. Chapman says everyone “has a primary love language which speaks more deeply to you than all the others.”
Once you discover which love language you or your partner are most fluent in, you can find out which intimate products speak directly to your heart (literally).
Words of Affirmation
According to Dr. Gary Chapman, words of affirmation is the most common of the five love languages. If this is your love language, then you thrive off of compliments and communication. You feel best when you’re sincerely praised and told how much you’re loved and appreciated, or when you’re the one doing the praising.
Your Product Match
Hot Date Night
Hot Date Night includes four sizzling decks with 100 of the sexiest questions and suggestions— that means you and your partner can up the intimacy and speak to your love language at the same time.
Hits The Spot
Maybe your Words of Affirmation are a little…different than most? Maybe being told you’re a “bad girl” is exactly what gets you going? And when your partner tells you what they want you to do, you feel their passion just as much as their sting. That’s where Hits The Spot comes in. With nine vibrating functions and a vegan leather flogger, this vibe and whip combo can do all the talking.
Acts of Service
Acts of Service is another of the more common love languages. It’s those warm fuzzy feelings you get when someone goes out of their way to do something for you. And in the same way, it’s the love you show when you take the time to do something helpful or kind for those you care about. It’s these simple gestures that make you feel loved and help you show your own affection.
Your Product Match
Whipped
Everyone enjoys servicing their partner in the bedroom. Well, one way to up the ante on these acts is to toss a little Whipped into the mix. This silky smooth and delicious cream lubricant makes everything taste better. It’s a treat both you and your partner can enjoy, so any “Acts of Service” that result are sure to send you out of this world!
Main Attraction
Main Attraction is a full-service vibe that goes above and beyond to make you the star of the show. With 10 speeds of clitoral vibration and 10 speeds of shaft vibration that tease and please, this rechargeable, bath-friendly, dual-action toy has everything you want and more.
Receiving Gifts
This love language is a little bit more obvious: you either love being showered with gifts or you’re the one doing the showering. And honestly, who doesn’t like a gift every now and then? In this case, it’s not necessarily about big, extravagant gifts. As Dr. Chapman explains, it’s more about “picking the right gift that shows you understand your partner and the effort you made to express love.”
Your Product Match
Our Little Secret
This vibe and c-ring combo is the ultimate gift for you AND your partner. The c-ring pairs with a handheld remote control, while the vibrator responds to a wearable wristband remote – so you and your partner can tease each other from across the room…or across the dance floor.
The Adventurer Curve
Sometimes, though, it’s not about the gifts you get from others, but the gift you give yourself. After all, you know exactly what you deserve. Enter The Adventurer Curve. Part vaginal stimulator, part airotic clitoral teaser, this little wonder pulls double duty for ultimate luxury. You can even let your partner in on the fun. Just situate The Adventurer Curve right where you want it, then invite your partner inside for a double dose of satisfaction. After all, pleasure is the gift that keeps on giving.
Quality Time
There’s a difference between being in someone’s presence and spending real, meaningful time with them. That means giving another person your undivided attention, actively listening and doing something together that you enjoy. Think: traveling, making dinner or getting hot and heavy in the bedroom.
Your Product Match
Double Feature
Pleasure is best when you and your partner get to experience it together – and this silicone c-ring does exactly that. Designed with an ultra-powerful motor and dual rings, Double Feature sends intense vibrations right where you want them most, creating deeper, longer-lasting orgasms so that your quality time is (very) well spent.
Just the Way I Lilac It
Locating the legendary G-spot isn’t always easy and has the potential to be rather time-consuming. But Just the Way I Lilac It is the perfect remedy. This G-spot vibe has a “you’ve gotta feel it to believe it” plush softness and its flexible, curved shaft is designed to hit just the right spot all day long. Now, you’ll have even more time to spend on yourself and all the self-love your love language requires.
Physical Touch
While getting intimate might be one of the ways you express love, physical touch can be as simple as holding hands or touching someone’s arm during a conversation to show that you care about what they have to say. You’re naturally a touchy-feely person and crave skin-to-skin contact.
Your Product Match
Heart Massager
Intimacy and touch go hand-in-hand, and there’s few things more intimate than a sensual, heated massage. This reusable heart-shaped heat pack can bring the relaxation of a hot stone massage to the bedroom. Just pair Heart Massager with your favorite massage oil and drift off into ecstasy.
Bosom Buddy
Everybody loves a little kiss…but what if you could take that kiss to the next level? Bosom Buddy adds a little flavor and tingle to your intimate sessions. Just rub a little on your lips (or nips!) for a sensation that will take you to new heights. Or apply it before giving an oral favor for a truly next-level experience!
