We all know the saying, “It’s not the size of the boat, it’s the motion of the ocean.” In other words, size doesn’t matter. But with 75% of women needing clitoral stimulation to orgasm, its neither. The size of a man’s penis can be a sensitive subject, but thankfully, Pure Romance has four ways to orgasm no matter what a partner is packing.

Take a Trip Downtown (wink wink)

You heard me. Women need about 20 minutes of stimulation before they can successfully orgasm. In those 20 minutes, it’s your tongue and fingers’ job to get that clitoris as hot and bothered as possible before getting your second brain into the mix. Sometimes you got to give brain to get brain… All jokes aside, oral favors should be enjoyable for both parties and we have products for both foreplay and during play to get the most out of every intimate session.

Use a Vibrator

There’s nothing wrong with having an extra hand… or a few… in the bedroom! And sometimes that hand takes the form of a vibrator. Contrary to popular belief, men on average are not intimidated by vibrators! In one study, when men were asked to agree or disagree with the statement that vibrators are intimidating to female partners, 70% of men disagreed or strongly disagreed. If you’re wondering the best toys to incorporate in your next sexscapade, you can’t go wrong with a clitoral vibrator, but also couples toys have their name for a reason.

Ride ‘em Cowgirl!

Easiest way to have a vaginal and clitoral orgasm no matter the size? You guessed it! The cowgirl position. This favorite amongst the control freak community is perfect for those looking to own their orgasm. When you’re on top, you decide the pace, depth, angle, and level of clitoral stimulation. And hey, it’s a good workout and gives your partner a well-deserved break. If you’re looking for even more positions to help you reach orgasm, we got you covered.

Uh Hello, Erogenous Zones!

Erogenous zones are parts of the body that excite sexual feelings when touched or stimulated, and there are way more than just the usual suspects. Everybody is different, which means you might not have discovered you or your partner’s favorite erogenous area yet. It’s time to get exploring. With more than 31 zones to cover, you have your work cut out for you! Our bodies are filled with sexually charged areas and a great way to build intimacy and increase foreplay is to find all of your partner’s.

Having a large member is great! Kudos to the men out there that do, but if you’re looking to increase your female partner’s pleasure, there’s no need to reach for enlargement pumps, pills or surgery, reach for the vibrator and get creative.

Vivien Fisher

Vivien Fisher

social media coordinator
Vivien Fisher (she/her/hers) is a social media coordinator and blog writer for Pure Romance. She loves covering topics like sexual health, lifestyle trends, and anything related to television and film. Her interests include spending time with her pet rabbit Bernard, creating amusing and educational content for the Pure Romance platforms, and exploring all that Cincinnati has to offer.