Bondage and roleplay can be intimidating words to some. Bondage can conjure images of masks, zippers, and whips. When it comes to roleplay, some may think of French maid outfits or plaid skirts and pigtails. Understandably, these ideas can be a little overwhelming or even embarrassing to some. So much so that it may cause them to immediately put bondage and roleplay into that mental “Nope, Never” list usually reserved for things like skydiving, bungee jumping, and spending a whole week vacationing with your in-laws.

But bondage isn’t all about latex, leather, and pain for pleasure. And roleplay isn’t something that has to be taken to the level of Halloween or community theater. It’s simply about letting go.

Letting go of your inhibitions, letting go of your expectations, and letting go of your control. Once you let go, it becomes easier to give in to things you never thought you would—and find fun and pleasure you’ve never experienced.

Here are three great products to help you let go (even just a little!) and discover something new.

Pleasure Seekers Play Set

Maybe you’re not ready for straps and cuffs just yet? Well, the Pleasure Seekers Play Set is the perfect place to start. First, it features a pair of silky satin fabric restraints you can use around your wrists, ankles, or both. Also, an alluring blindfold that takes away all expectations and helps heighten the other senses. And finally, a feather to tickle and tease up and down you or your partner’s body.

This set is a great way to ease into bondage play. It’s fun and accessible, and the soft red straps exude a sexy and romantic vibe.

Tie Me Up Tape

Maybe you’re craving something a little more advanced? Well, Our Tie Me Up Tape might be exactly what you’re looking for. This bondage tape is great for both beginners and experts and—as the name implies—is perfect for restraining wrists, ankles, or anything else you like. And the best part? The tape is self-adhesive, so it sticks to itself and not your skin, making it easy to use and remove. It’s another great way to dip a toe into bondage play and indulge in your sexiest all-tied-up fantasies.

Tempt & Tease Foreplay Dice

This last item will help you turn up the fun, give up control, and take your night to the next level. After all, these aren’t your usual dice—they’re a sexy foreplay game that will get your mind reeling while you explore your partner’s body. Each of the three dice has a different role to play. One is all about action (kissing, tickling, licking), while another directs you to different parts of the body (the lips, the neck, and the nipples). The final die tells you how long you’ll be performing the action on your partner. Then, it’s time to switch! All it takes is a little roll to start heating things up.

This game is perfect for couples who want to slow things down and spice things up while exploring each other. And remember: the rules are made to be broken, so don’t be afraid to wander…

Ready to Let Go?

It can be intimidating to try something new—especially in the bedroom! But these three products are fantastic (and sexy) ways to ease into letting go and giving in to something you’ve never experienced before. All it takes is a little trust between partners, and you’re bound to discover a whole new world of bedroom possibilities.

Looking for even more bondage talk and products? Check out all our bondage products or some tied-up sex positions.

Trey Zink
Trey Zink (He/Him/His) is a writer at Pure Romance. With a degree in Graphic Design from the University of Cincinnati, Trey floated around the packaging and branding world for 10+ years, designing and writing for brands such as Tide, Welch’s, and Miracle-Gro. He eventually pivoted careers, trading packaging, logos, and signage for rhymes, puns, and alliteration. Outside of work, Trey enjoys video games, soccer, and melancholy songs.